Seen and Understood: For the Quiet Ones With Loud Inner Worlds

A Christian Reflection on Power, Exposure, and Redemption. When Coldplay’s Chris Martin pointed the Kiss Cam at a couple in the audience on 16 July 2025 , few would have guessed that moment would catapult a tech CEO and HR leader into global headlines. Recognized almost immediately as Andy Byron , CEO of Astronomer, and Kristin Cabot , their Chief People Officer (both married to other people) their startled, awkward reaction turned them into viral symbols of scandal and betrayal. Chris Martin’s off‑the‑cuff joke  “Either they’re having an affair or they’re just very shy”   set the tone for a media spectacle that was inevitable and immediate . Within days, Andy Byron resigned on 19 July , Astronomer launched a board investigation, and Kristin Cabot also stepped away from her role . The company’s public statement made plain: “Our leaders are expected to model the highest standards of conduct and accountability" . In typical news accounts, the focus is on infidelity , PR fallou...

What mixed signals, late-night texts, and God have in common. I’ve been friend-zoned by a Christian guy. And, plot twist: I’ve also been the one who got the unexpected “ Hey, I like you actually ” message from a close male friend. At this point, I feel like I’ve earned enough emotional air miles to write this blog post with free snacks included. So if you’ve ever found yourself in a Christian-flavoured situationship, you’re not alone. I’ve been there. More than once. There was a time (actually, multiple times) when I caught feelings for a guy in church who, at first glance, seemed like he might feel the same. I mean, daily texts, long conversations, spiritual banter, mutual Spotify sharing... the whole thing screamed “ maybe he likes me? ” But the minute I dared to hope, he’d casually remind me I was just a friend. A sister in Christ . The one he felt comfortable texting about everything and nothing but never actually pursuing. You know, the “I appreciate you so much” texts withou...

“He Sends Bible Verses But Can’t Say ‘I Like You’" Let’s just say it, emotionally unavailable guys are the spiritual version of junk food. Looks holy. Smells divine. Tastes like potential. But spiritually… gives you a stomachache. You’re a Christian girl. You love Jesus, Hillsong's older albums, and the idea of a man who prays before making decisions. So why, oh why, do you find yourself overanalyzing a guy who won’t even call you his friend in public? Let’s break this pattern down, one awkward worship night crush at a time.   1. He’s Broken… But With a Bible Some Christian girls have a serious case of "fix-it faith." You know the type: “He just needs someone to love him back to life.” Cue soft piano worship music. But sis… you’re not the Holy Spirit. You're not the emotional paramedic for men who ghost you for three days and then randomly send you Psalm 23. We romanticize brokenness because Christian culture often glorifies the “wounded leader” narrativ...

“I’m Ready, God. Where Are They?” You’ve read every “Christian dating” article on the internet (hi, welcome to another one). You’ve journaled your heart out, set up healthy boundaries, healed from childhood wounds, deleted situationships, re-downloaded Hinge, and even sat through the dreaded couples’ sermon alone. Twice. At this point, you’re like, “Okay God, I get it. I’ve grown. I’ve learned. Can we move on to the part where someone’s son texts me back?” But then… nothing. Just more bridal showers and another wedding hashtag you didn’t ask to see. Waiting is hard. Waiting well feels impossible. But even when you're rolling your eyes at the sky, God's timing in dating still matters. Here's why.   1. God’s Not Being Mean, He’s Being Merciful Let’s start here: God isn’t withholding a relationship because He’s bored or trying to teach you some spiritual algebra. He’s protecting you. From the wrong people. From premature connections. From heartbreaks you’re not built ...

Christian dating is supposed to be this magical blend of prayer, purity, and purpose... right? But let’s be real. Sometimes it’s a chaotic mix of awkward coffee dates, weird text devotionals, and people who “love Jesus” but also ghost you for a month straight. While the internet is filled with the usual red flags (anger issues, manipulation, lack of accountability), there’s a whole spiritual category of 🚩 red flags that no one seems to talk about. Until now. So let’s go there. Let’s talk about the stuff that makes you pause mid-worship and think, “Wait… is this holy or just hot-and-cold confusion in a Bible verse wrapper?”   1. They Use “God Told Me” as a Trump Card “God told me you’re my wife.” Sir… we just met ten minutes ago . This is spiritual manipulation in a holy disguise. If they’re constantly pulling the “ God said ” card to guilt, pressure, or fast-forward your emotions, that’s not discernment, it’s domination. Yes, God speaks, but He’s not in the business of overri...

There comes a time in every Christian girl's life when you’re 73% sure he’s the one... but also 92% sure you’re just lonely and sleep-deprived. You prayed. You fasted (sort of). He goes to church, knows a few Bible verses, and didn’t flinch when you said “boundaries.” But is that enough? Let’s be honest: trying to figure out if someone is the one is like trying to hear God’s voice through a Spotify ad. Confusing. Distracting. Possibly manipulated by algorithms. Welcome to your guide (equal parts Biblical and brutally honest) on how to know if your potential other half is actually sent by God… or if you’re just being bamboozled by charm and emotional FOMO. ✦ ✦ ✦ 1. Do You Like Him, or Just Like Liking Someone? Look. Infatuation is not a fruit of the Spirit. Before diving into “signs from heaven,” ask yourself: Do I even like this person as a human being? Or do I just like being liked ? Ask yourself: Would I still enjoy talking to him if I were sick and bloated with food po...